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Joy in HK fiFP's avatar

The problem may be that each of us tends to see him or herself as the protagonist of the story, which is also a story only about him or her. Anyone who is perceived as countering this narrative must, by definition, be "the baddies."

Breaking out of this narcissistic trap is the job of parents and others in society who themselves have broken through. Unfortunately, extending that necessary narcissism, beyond when needed for survival, say, maybe the first half-dozen years, becomes toxic, and when transposed onto the greater society, American Exceptionalism, becomes deadly, not only to others, but to our/themselves.

Pushing back on the hypocrisy is always on order.

Thank you!

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Jarrod Baniqued's avatar

I would like to (wryly) note that I’m writing this from the Philippines. There’s a reason Independence Day is celebrated on a different day from the anniversary of it actually gaining sovereignty--those declaring independence from Spain intended for the Americans to back off.

After June 12, 1898 the rebels fought the Americans in the 1900s and lost, in one of the few examples of the US winning an asymmetrical war, marked by one of the first recorded uses of concentration camps. Fortunately, there were enough DC anti-imperialists in both parties advocating for Philippine sovereignty that it was granted...on July 4, 1946 (and also some of them wanted it out of opposition to a multiracial America). The lesson, I suppose, is that America’s more unnervingly like Britain than one’d think

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